Living and laughing with a disability - cerebral palsy; ordinary life, extraordinary circumstances.
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Showing posts with label my disability. Show all posts
Monday, December 26, 2011
Saturday, June 19, 2010
...But have a good life!
Yesterday I went downtown (Portland) to have lunch with Sam. We roomed together at Varsity House down at Oregon State 27 years ago. We meet together a couple times a year to talk about family, faith and politics.
I am his one honorary liberal friend. Awe!
Usually I pick Sam up in our oversized Sprinter van and we drive somewhere for lunch. We were going to do that yesterday, but I actually found a parking spot. It was only two blocks from the Oregonian building where he works, right in front of a couple mail boxes.
It was a gorgeous day. I had room to unload my scooter, so I did. I scooted down and met Sam in front of The O. Rather than wishing him a belated "happy birthday", I commented how thin and white his hair was becoming.
We headed down to the Pioneer Place food court. Sam walks fast. I was keeping up with my scooter.
This one block we walked down, this is tricky to explain...there as a curbcut for a driveway, then a curbcut up to a narrow sidewalk that led to a larger driveway to a underground parking garage.
Sam and I were making our way down this narrow sidewalk at a good clip. We got to the end. A ten inch curb. No curbcut.
Sam looked at me and said "Can you go over that?" I think he read my thoughts - Yes Sam, I'm going to back this puppy up a bit, hit 90, and fly from curb to curb...instead, he helped me back up.
Thinking about it now, I think there should a sign at the beginning of the sidewalk to warn that there is no ramp at the other end...something like "We recognize the needs of the disabled enough to put up this cheesy sign, but we care to little to do anything about it. There is no ramp at the end of this sidewalk...but have a good life."
Please don't forget the "But have a good life" part...it's nice to know you're thinking about us.
After lunch, I loaded my scooter into the van. I tried to do a trick that works some of the time - I tried to close the back doors from inside the van. I pulled the left door part way, put the lift up, then tried to reach over the top of the lift to pull the door closed. As I was flailing about trying to do this, passing cars started waiving at me, as if I was waiving at them! It made me laugh.
I ended up going down the lift, putting it back up, closing the back doors properly, and going in through the front.
Sigh...
I am his one honorary liberal friend. Awe!
Usually I pick Sam up in our oversized Sprinter van and we drive somewhere for lunch. We were going to do that yesterday, but I actually found a parking spot. It was only two blocks from the Oregonian building where he works, right in front of a couple mail boxes.
It was a gorgeous day. I had room to unload my scooter, so I did. I scooted down and met Sam in front of The O. Rather than wishing him a belated "happy birthday", I commented how thin and white his hair was becoming.
We headed down to the Pioneer Place food court. Sam walks fast. I was keeping up with my scooter.
This one block we walked down, this is tricky to explain...there as a curbcut for a driveway, then a curbcut up to a narrow sidewalk that led to a larger driveway to a underground parking garage.
Sam and I were making our way down this narrow sidewalk at a good clip. We got to the end. A ten inch curb. No curbcut.
Sam looked at me and said "Can you go over that?" I think he read my thoughts - Yes Sam, I'm going to back this puppy up a bit, hit 90, and fly from curb to curb...instead, he helped me back up.
Thinking about it now, I think there should a sign at the beginning of the sidewalk to warn that there is no ramp at the other end...something like "We recognize the needs of the disabled enough to put up this cheesy sign, but we care to little to do anything about it. There is no ramp at the end of this sidewalk...but have a good life."
Please don't forget the "But have a good life" part...it's nice to know you're thinking about us.
After lunch, I loaded my scooter into the van. I tried to do a trick that works some of the time - I tried to close the back doors from inside the van. I pulled the left door part way, put the lift up, then tried to reach over the top of the lift to pull the door closed. As I was flailing about trying to do this, passing cars started waiving at me, as if I was waiving at them! It made me laugh.
I ended up going down the lift, putting it back up, closing the back doors properly, and going in through the front.
Sigh...
Friday, December 19, 2008
We broke free...for two hours
Yesterday morning, Thursday, was the first morning of the week without ice. We were surprised how clear it was. The rain had really done its job. There were traces of slushy ice on the ground, but it was negotiable.
The forecast called for artic temps to return at four in the afternoon. Jodie and I work for the same agency, but different offices. I decided to work from Jodie's office yesterday, since it is only a mile from our house. We would just leave by three in the afternoon to avoid the "freeze."
E's school was canceled Monday and Wednesday this week. School was open on Thursday. Before we went to Jodie's office, we dropped E off at my in-laws. He rides with cousin Vance to school.
As soon as we got to Jodie's office it began to snow.
Within an hour the snow had turned the streets white. School closed. An hour after that E, Vance, friend Marcus, and sis-in-law Denise were at Jodie's office to escort us home. Vance and Marcus did a awesome job escorting myself and Jodie to our van. E opened the door and started it up. Denise drove it home for us. Then, they went and got groceries for us.
Back home, Jodie and I felt silly. We were trying to be responsible. We hadn't been to work all week, and we thought there was a big enough break in the weather to make it to our jobs. Denise said not to worry.
I don't remember there being such a long freezing spell here before. Tomorrow, a huge storm is supposed to hit, bringing eight inches of snow. It's not supposed to warm up until Christmas Eve.
Our offices are understanding of our mobility issues as it relates to not being able to get around on ice, but still, it is hard for us to accept.
Monday, January 28, 2008
Hey Ma...I need more straws...
Next Costco run, Ma, I need a bag of straws.
The bag with 2500 unwraped straws is my preferrence, but the bag with 2000 wrapped straws is okay. This last bag was the wrapped straws...kind of Troy-proof (hard to open).
I use lots of straws. A bag lasts about a year. I have some left...just don't want to run out.
Thank you Ma!
The bag with 2500 unwraped straws is my preferrence, but the bag with 2000 wrapped straws is okay. This last bag was the wrapped straws...kind of Troy-proof (hard to open).
I use lots of straws. A bag lasts about a year. I have some left...just don't want to run out.
Thank you Ma!
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